On The Importance of Exploring & Understanding Emotions

Imagine you’re about to take a trip to Mars, where everyone speaks only martian, and you speak only english.

How easy or difficult do you think it would be to realize & manifest your dream on Mars?

How easy or difficult would relationships be?

How easy or difficult would working with others in matters of financial security & prosperity be?

Would you feel connected or isolated? Would you be thriving or struggling?

How fulfilling & enjoyable would this life on Mars be?

How would it be different… if you learned the martian language first?

Consider, it is very much the same on earth in regard to emotions. Emotion & the understanding and expressing of, is the most common fundamental ‘language’ on earth. Emotion is the very ‘fabric’ of reality, as infinite unconditional love is appearing as the spheres, and therein, appearing as thoughts & perception.

If you’re reading this now, you experience emotions, though you might be struggling with this aspect due to not having yet taken the time to understand the emotions you are experiencing, and the significance therein.

If you are feeling isolated, if you are struggling, if you are experiencing difficulty in relationships, if you very much desire to be thriving… learn about, understand, and express freely the emotions you are experiencing.

See the ‘connection’ between the holding of judgement, or discordant self referential beliefs, and the suppression of expression, and the violence and harm which inevitably follows. Effortlessly, allow expression. Before judging, before deflecting or projecting… take pause and understand what you are feeling and why. Inspect any believing of thoughts of justification & rationalization of your feeling of discord.

You deserve to create & experience what you desire to create and experience. You deserve to be happy. Matter of fact, creator-creating-creation, happiness - is your true nature - is what you truly are. There is only to ‘get out of your own way’, and that is to express, and to ‘put down the armor’ of justifications & rationalizations of discord, and to instead express & understand the emotions you are experiencing, and to do so is truly to receive the guidance of your own ever-loving infinite self.

How does One ‘get out of one’s own way’? By expressing, and thus releasing contraction, tension, and discord.

What is the relevance of this?

Focus.

‘Holding onto’ discordant beliefs, and the discord emotions therein, obscures focus by keeping the mind ruminating, trying to solve this ‘feeling issue’ - trying to think One’s way to feeling better - while One is the greatest possible ‘feeling’ which could ever be. The mind can never think the very substance the mind is made of.

(See Bursting Your Bubbles - From Beliefs To Clarity)

You are a creator. Ultimately, in Truth - you are the creator, and emotion is intrinsic guidance to your creating. Emotion is the language of creator-creating-creation.

You are the infinite unconditional love which appears as reality, and thus forgets, that you are the infinite unconditional love which is appearing as reality.

For there to be experience, reality, creation - there must be somewhere experience appears to transpire, and someway of experiencing. And so you be ‘that’, by being the two spheres.

And then there seems to be, ‘duality’, or an actuality of ‘twoness’.

All duality is appearance; The Infinite Enlightened One - appearing as - “two”.

Because you are infinite unconditional love; you can not ‘think yourself’. You are being the thoughts. While thought can seem like ‘this other thing’, this ‘thing’ which is not me, thoughts can seem to be ‘about yourself’, and can be believed to actually be, about yourself. Because you are unconditional, no thought can actually define or describe you in any way, as all thought is in some way a distinction, and what is infinite, what is unconditional, in truth is without any conditions.

Pointing terms like ‘law of attraction’ or ‘conscious creating’ are often misunderstood to be something one learns and somehow begins to do. In truth, your creating started with being the two spheres. In truth, ‘time’ is only the thoughts and belief, in time. You did not be the two spheres in the past, you are being right now. ‘Law of attraction’ and ‘conscious creating’, is about realizing you are already creating by default, and you are already receiving and experiencing the guidance in your creating, also referred to as emotions.

The pointing that emotion is guidance for your creating is both extremely subtle, and extremely profound.

(See The Emotional Scale, and What Is Feeling, specifically the wifi analogy at the bottom)

Infinite unconditional love, you, creates that-there-is-experience by being the two spheres. The sphere of someway, is thus an experiential multiplicity of; thoughts. The variance between the thought content, and the love which is being the thought - is felt - by & as, the very love which is appearing as, the thoughts.

The content of many thoughts are of course about perception, or, reality, or simply ‘others’ & the world. The experience of thoughts, is privatized. That is, no One ever experiences the thoughts which arise for so to speak, another. This is the multiplicity.

Each One, which is ultimately the very same Enlightened One, experiences thought privately. Very often, One deflects & projects, only in first missing this most fundamental aspect of creation, or, the two spheres. That is, One commonly reacts to what ‘another’ is thinking… missing that One is only reacting to what One assumes ‘another’ is thinking. One misses that emotion, and the feeling of discord or alignment therein, is the feeling-guidance in regard to the thought, belief or interpretation One is focused upon Oneself. Put simply - one doesn’t feel how One feels because of what another thinks, but because of what One thinks about, what another thinks.

As a ‘connecting of the dots’ - allow this to highlight the important of expressing how you do feel, and what you do think - and affording & allowing ‘others’ the same respect and ease of communication.

Imagine, you are about to go on an adventure through a vast forest which you have never explored. There are some items you’d surely bring with you. Namely, a compass.

If you’ve ever gotten lost in the woods, you know how easy this can be. You can walk only ten or twenty yards off the path only to find you can’t tell which direction to go, to get back to the path. The compass would be most handy, as it would always point true north, and thus always communicate to you the direction to your desired destination - to where you want to ultimately be headed.

This ‘compass’ is the guidance of emotion, and the guidance is to what you are wanting.

(See The Dreamboard, The Emotional Scale, and Aligning Thought With Feeling).

Notice in direct experience the profundity that all thought, and all perception appears & disappears, comes & goes - while feeling never comes & goes.

I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in.
I am lost… I am helpless.
It isn’t my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don’t see it.
I fall in again.
I can’t believe I am in the same place.
But it isn’t my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it is there.
I still fall in… it’s a habit.
My eyes are open.
I know where I am.
It is my fault… I get out immediately.

I walk down the same street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.

I walk down another street.

-Portia Nelson